Roses aren’t just for gazing at over a romantic dinner—they’re for picking, sniffing, and, if the farm grows edible varieties, even snacking. Thanks to a handful of Dutch farms that open their fields to eager pickers, you can spend a summer day (the season runs from June to September) wading through rows of fragrant blooms, scissors in hand, playing garden stylist. Go solo for some quiet flower therapy, or make a day of it with friends and family. Pro tip: cut early in the morning or late in the afternoon, when it is cool and the flowers are well hydrated. Choose buds that are plump and just starting to open, and cut the stem at an angle with sharp secateurs, just above a leaf node, leaving at least two or three sets of leaves on the plant. Wear gloves against the thorns and carry your roses in a bucket of water. Don’t be shy about mixing colors.

Once you’re home: Remove the leaves below the waterline, recut the stems at an angle, and put them in clean, cool water. Change the water every two days and keep the vase away from fruit and direct sun; depending on the variety, your roses will last 3 to 10 days.

  • Decorate like royalty: Pluck off the heads and float them in shallow bowls of water as romantic table decor. Or strip the leaves, bundle six stems together, and hang them upside down in a dark, dry place for two weeks to create dried roses that will last all winter. Scatter the petals on your dinner table, or stuff them into a glass vase for a rustic, shabby-chic centerpiece.
  • Potpourri – combine dried petals with a few drops of rose essential oil, cloves, or dried lavender. Place in little bowls around the house.

For tea lovers—a rose-infused brew: Not every rose is meant for eating, so ask the farmer whether the petals are from an edible variety and unsprayed. Gather about a cup of fresh rose petals (red or pink work best) and pinch off the bitter white base. Rinse gently. Boil two cups of water, pour over the petals in a teapot, and steep for 5 to 7 minutes. Strain and add a spoonful of honey and a squeeze of lemon. It’s floral and gently sweet.